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Sensory Self-Care: Using the Five Senses to Keep Kids Calm

sensory self care using the five senses to keep kids calm

sensory self care using the five senses to keep kids calm

Did you know that using the five senses for sensory self-care helps to keep kids calm? Our emotions and five senses are deeply entwined. Touch, taste, smell, hearing, sight—each sense feeds back essential information about our surroundings which helps our brain to make sense of the world. And the world can be a big, scary place, especially for kids.

Our senses are also involved in the making of memories. When we store our memories, we also include some of the sensory input and the emotion felt at that moment in time. Have you ever smelled something or seen a picture of a beautiful holiday you once took, and a memory comes flooding back? Was it coupled with a strong emotion? This is called “conceptual association,” where what we sense triggers our feelings.1

Using the Five Senses to Keep Kids Calm

Harnessing senses to try to elicit particular feelings can help bring a sense of calm. This works well for our kids and their emotions too. We don’t want to teach our kids to avoid their feelings. We need to help them process and work through negative emotions. One way to do this is to use senses to help soothe kids and help them feel less overwhelmed by the feeling they are experiencing.

There’s also the added benefit that when we engage their senses, we are helping them change their focus to the present moment. This is a type of mindfulness. Bringing awareness to the here and now can influence wellbeing positively as our kids won’t be caught up in negative thoughts, patterns, or other stressors occupying their minds. Building a sensory self-care box is one great way to harness the senses and help our kids stay calm.

Sensory Self-Care Box

Creating a sensory self-care box or bag for your child is fun and easy! It can be an old shoebox or a reusable shopping bag. It doesn’t have to be expensive. First, get them to decorate the box or bag by painting, coloring, gluing on pictures, etc. The act of intentionally creating a box that they know will help them calm down and soothe themselves is very important. They will feel ownership over their feelings and be less worried or fearful of big emotions. Here are some suggestions for what to include in the sensory box or bag for your child:

Sense of Sight

Sense of Sound

Sense of Touch

Sense of Taste

Sense of Smell

Help your child create a sensory box to take charge of their emotions. Ensure they always have access to it, so they can use it independently and feel in control of their emotions. Practice pulling out the box or bag at times you know are challenging in the day and encourage them to use the items to soothe themselves. Learning to harness their senses will give them a sense of autonomy and confidence. And they will be increasingly aware and attuned to their emotional needs.

  1. Simion, M. R. (2016) Fractal Images – A New Way to Reduce Stress and To Improve Educational Workspaces. Global Journal of Psychology Research, New Trends, and Issues, 6 (1).
  2. Thomson, et al. (2010). Linking sensory characteristics to emotions: An example using dark chocolate. Food Quality and Preferences, 21. 1117-1125.
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